It must be disappointing to check back to this site and see nothing has changed from day to day. For that I offer a little bit of apology. You know, my “motivation” waxes and wanes, since I have the rest of my life to live.
For example, you could play in gear with a real person. That’s what I did last week. There was a visitor in town from a neighboring state. I found time to host him in my home, where we shared our gear and played our bodies. It was great fun. We also walked around a nearby park. I wore a red singlet. He had a singlet too, but wore a t-shirt over it. I can understand the reservation.
I enjoy the play, but I don’t make any sexual contact, mainly because it’s just not my kind of thing. I know for a lot of guys the gear play leads to something else. Whatever you do, play safely.